What's The Point

All the Wife and I do now is Fight Sleep and have Sex yea thats a great relationship shure the Sex is great and all and the Sleeping is nice too but it's normaly in that order Once in awhile we like to change it up but thats about it we're trying to get into marriage counselling for alot of issue for example my wife's ability to blow the smallest thing out of proportion then turn it in to WW3 at a drop of a hate with all the anger and hostilness to boot and i'm lack of attention span
i dont like the fact that i feel she treats me like i child and when i say something about it she blames everything on me when i'm not trying to blame anything just trying to talk about it but in her mind i'm saying everything is her fault when she's the one that gets verbly violent and when we try to talk about something inportant to me she's all the sudden forgot about it but if its important to her god for bid i should ever do such a thing the fact that she calls her car her's not our's when we both take care of what ever we can on payments to take care of each other not one or the other so these are the things i feel should stop i'll start with my self

list for david
1.be more attentive to detail
2.be able to be more understanding of
someones emotions even if they
dont make sense
3.be able to realizize what the word no means
4.be able to be more there for her yet at the same time
still have time for my self as well
5.being able to relize my limits before it
gets to the point of yelling
6.be able to voice what i feel is true
yet still be able to listen to the other sides
opinon on the matter and even if i disagree
with it not to tell her she's wrong
i think that really covers the things i notice about my self an the things i've been working on after noticing them

misty's list
1.the mood swings i under stand she's bi-polor and she's going to have them
i'm bi-polor and i have them but there has to be away to control the angery one's
becuase when you get that way i dont want anything to do with you becuase
you really do treat me and everyone around you like shit
unless you know there's someone around that you cant get away with it i've noticed
2.your nagging over the tinnest thing yes i realize it drives you nuts but if its so bad if you notice that i'm on the run going to work or doing something esle you do it i'm not saying you have to or anything like that just stop bringing it up and if you do start doing that i'll start making sure the ketchen is in better shape
3.the term mine/your's has to stop there is no more mine and yours its ours when you are married everything is shared when you say i'm sorry no thats mine your really being a controling bitch with an attitude and trying to get back at the person for something normaly namly me it really is fucking annoy but you have been really getting a good hang on this one thank you so much in all actualality it makes me feel like i have nothing and my response to that is well if i have nothing why should my money go to nothing you might find that fucked up but i find the words mine and yours fucked up
4.if i was going to fuck someone else i would of done it while you where treating me like shit
i have no reason to have sex with someone else i love you and i wouldnt hurt you like that
5.your low self esteem i'm with you becuase i love you and your beutiful
6.i cant think of anything for this one yet but this is what i've come up with so farif you see this and get angry and it really pisses you off its time to end the relationship but if you see this and think and say ok and even if it does piss you off and you dont understand it try to there's nothing wrong with that but i'm sick of the arguemtns and i'm sick of feeling like shit becuase i cant say something because it's going to piss you off and i'm sick of feeling like i have to walk on egg shells half the time and god forbid anyone else dies that you know i dont think our relationship could take it i really dont but i also think that if we start working on the shit i was talking about in the above lists i think we'll be fine i love you so much and i really want this to work but its going to take both of us and its going to be hard work esspecaly when we really dont get to see each other at all
but i know shit will work out if we both try but its up to you